I'm sure all of us know what happens if you shake a carbonated drink before you open it. The gasses build up inside and then come rushing out of the little opening in the top of the bottle. You can't control how much comes out and where the mess goes, it just becomes a chaotic situation. That is where the saying, "you can't keep bottling things up, eventually you are going to burst," comes from. Explain how this example can be connected to what Steven is dealing with and how he is handling it.