Well, I don't think I can narrow it down to one time or if I can even remember. But, I know that we have been in a situation that we say something that we want to come out sarcastic, sad, or happy and the person we are directing it toward takes it the wrong way, by the sound of our voice or facial emotions,etc!
An expierence where I used words to hurt someones feelings was when I called my brother an idiot. I forget the reason but the point is that I shouldn't have done that and that it really hurt his feelings. He cried while my mother scolded me. It kind of hurt me to by seeing my brother so sad.
Well once my brother and i were fighting and said that he was a mistake.after i sad it i felt terrible because nobody is perfect and i have made many many mistakes.so i went and apologized to him and told him that i deffinately regret ever Saying something like that to him
The experience I have when I have hurt someone emotionally was by accident. My friend and I we were in the middle of a small fight when I said something that I still regret to this day to him. After I said that I said a sincere apology but him was very hurt and walked away. That is why I always try to be my nicest all the time.
One time I got really annoyed at my sister because she wouldn't stop bothering me and I was really young about 5 or 6. So I got really mad and I started telling her these mean things and we both got in trouble. So that is one time that I hurt my sister emotionally.
In third grade I said an incredibly mean thing to my younger brother. I told him I wished he was not my brother.
This all happened when I ate some ice cream without asking. My younger brother saw this and told my parents. When I saw him come back in the kitchen with my Dad, I went nuts. This is when I said the terrible thing to him. When my brother heard this he started to cry as he repeated out loud that I did not want to be his brother anymore.
I felt terrible and still today when I think of that moment. It was just hard to stay in control when he told on me. I felt embarrassed and angry. I know it hurt his feelings a lot too. Fortunately this only happened once and will never again.
well i don't really remember an exacta time where i have done that and meant it but since we are all human beings i am pretty sure tha i have done it more than once. sometimes i say things to ally Rachel and daisy, but i don't really mean to hurt them and they know that hopeful but i'm almost positive they know that i am just kidding ...
Honestly I have not used words to intentionally hurt someone. I have done it accidentally though. I have accidentally taken a joke too far and hurt someone. I know it hurt them and it didn't feel to great to me either. I always felt guilty and I didn't know how to apologize to them
Well this is an interesting blog.....ummm well of course, sometimes my brother gets on my nerves. He may say something me of annoying. I usually want to fight back and say something more rude to him. There has been many times of when I've done that. Having a brother is either hehe
Well it wasn't to there face. So what happened is that this kid made the team I was on just because his dad was a coach. I was very upset about it because,even thou he was ok. I kept saying he shouldn't be on this team sooo many times that is was like a daily basic routine. But the goalie that should have made it wasn't so good so I gets it was for the best. Well actually not sharing the net at all would of been better but you know life's tough wear a helmet. :)
One time at basketball practice, when I wasn't doing so well, and someone else was, I used hurtful words to make myself feel better. I basically used the mean words as confidence boosters. I could see that it hurry them on the inside, and I shouldn't have done it. But when I said it it made me feel like a king, and I got cocky. I took advantage of them to bring myself back up, and it made it feel like they it bottom. Now, looking back at it, I should have said those words to me, because I was acting like a jerk, and I shouldn't have been doing so.
A time where I have used words to hurt someone emotionally is a time when I was 8. I got in a fight with my brother. I went on a rage and I was some things I shouldn't of. It made him angry and we started to hit each other. Then my mom got involved and stopped it so we didn't get hurt. That is a time that I have used words to hurt someone emotionally.
What Merryl said to Jessica was really mean and I have almost had the same experience. I was at dance and there was this girl who was not very good, but she thought she was amazing. She told everyone that they were not good dancers. It was hard to hear these things. I just let it go. It turned out she had been saying these things to everyone and she left the studio this year. My story had a happy ending but there is not always a happy ending. This could be a form of bullying. It does not feel good to get bullied, but some times you have to let it go.
Well, one time where my brother got something and i didn't tried to make him feel bad because I was jealous. I did that because I wanted him to not get that but by being mean it didn't really change anything. So I felt bad about being mean to him so I apologized and told him i didn't mean what I said. That's what Merryl should do for Jessica....
The time i said something mean to somebody is when i sent something really mean to brother. I said something that he knew was bad about him. that made him angry and he beat me up. Now that i know that hurt his feelings i wouldnt do itn again
Merrly did say spmething incradibly mean to Jessica, but it was intentional. There was one time where I was angry because I got hurt in soccer practice. I was kinda angry for the rest of the day. In that time I may have tooken my anger out on my brother because he kept talking and I had to keep telling him to be quiet, so I may have hurt his feelings because I had to repeadly tell him to Quiet Down and that may have stressed him out. I think it did and then I felt bad, so I let him have some of my halloween candy. If I didn't yell at him in the first place he wouldn't need to be cheered up.
Last year, I tripped like five times while I was running the mile, do I got 9 minutes and about 30 seconds on my mile time. I was really dissapointed, because I could have gotten about a minute less than that time. For the rest of the day, I was really mad and angry about it.When I got home, my sister had a half day so she was working on her project. She asked me "What do you think? Should I add a little more glitter?" I didnt even look at her posterboard, and I didnt think before I talked. So I said,"Give it up. Its not going to turn out pretty anyway." My sister's feelings were really hurt, and I felt really bad about it so I appoligized.
This story isnt completely said like what Merryl said to Jessica, but its the first story I could think of! :)
I have used hurtfull words to my brother before when I was younger because he hit me and other people have used those words to me before but i just dont care and shurg it off.One time I was being called "names" and all and I was the one that got in trouble.
Mr. Christopher A. Bunel6th Grade TeacherThompson Brook SchoolAvon, CT 06001