Well I think that everybody has had that time in there life where somebody said something to them that met more than that person thought because of personal resons and ended up stunned at that moment that they wante the person to feel the way they did so ended up responding in a crul way. I can't really remember right now a time where that has happens but I do know that t has happens befor maybe when my brother tells me to stop singing because he hunks I'm horrible I end up saying something back that isn't the nicest thing because I love singing and I believe hat I am good at it.
One time someone said something mean to me and I said something mean back, because I didn't want him to have the last word. I just didn't want them to feel like the best, I wanted to feel like the best. I guess it's just a natural reflex to say something like what they said. You don't want to feel like you are at the bottom so you male them feel like that.
I cant really think of a time where this has happend but i am sure it has.its because i you are offended by something someone says to you your immeadiate reaction is to say something back.i have tried to make a habbit if thinking before i speak but, sometimes its hard.
I don't think I can really narrow this down to one time: maybe when I get frustrated at my brothers or friends I come back with a snappy comment.Also, when its your parents and if they talk to you, you might disagree or agree and come back with a comment that you think is fine to say to them. But, they get angry at you.
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I did remember a time when someone said something mean to me, and I responded with something terrible. In 4th grade when a boy and I got into an argument about speed during lunch. The argument kept going back and fourth until he had it and said I sucked at everything I played. Then without a second of thinking I called him four eyes because he wore glasses. After I said that, I knew I said something wrong because there was a moment of silence. He had a tear in his eye and people at my table looked at me terribly. I definitely knew I said something worse than him. At the end of the school day I said sorry to him and it was fine.
I never really gotten into an argument with someone who wasn't in my family and the argument was saying nasty things to each other. But I get into arguments a lot with my sister and we always call each other things that make us feel self-consciuos and we always respond quickly back with another mean comment (without thinking).
There has been times where I was in a situation where I was fighting with someone about my name. I did respond with a nasty comment back. When I first said it I felt proud of myself but soon I saw the look on his face and that changed my mind. After that he just walked away without saying anything. Now I always try to think before I speak.
I never have been in a situation where I said something to hurt peoples feelings but I have thought of saying it. We have been in a fight or agrugment where both of us have lost our tempers and there where things said that shouldn't have been said. I had to take a breath so I didn't say anything that would hurt the other person unnessacarily.
Yes I actually have been in plenty situations like that. Almost every day, by brother calls me a name that is more funny than hurtful, but before I think about it, I atomaticly spit out a nasty word that usally makes my brother cry. His words don't usaully make me feel self-counsious, because they are coming from my brother, and he says it all the time, but it still bugs me enough to flash back a nasty comment.
Well, my siblings sometimes get kinda angry and we have arguments. It would not feel good, and I would keep fighting with them. So, yeah, I guess a time when that happened is basically when I fight with my siblings. Like one time they said something mean like just name-calling, and I'll reply with comeback, although sometimes I try to walk away. But, I definantly didn't want to hurt their feelings on purpose, and I'm sure that they didn't want to hurt my feelings either. Sometimes when people fight, they really don't pay attention to what their saying and just want to win, until parents step in and everything gets resolved.
There have been times when I've been a situation simulator to tads, where somebody has said something unkind and I've said something right back because I was so enraged at what they said, I wouldn't let it go unnoticed. This is what I have exprtienced that is like this situation.
Yes! 2 words....my brother. Of course he says nasty things to me. ALL the time. So when he does I feel the need to fight back verbally.
The only thing that I can remember is something that happened in third grade. This girl called me "2nd grader" because I was younger than anyone else. I got a little angry and said,"You may be older than me, but I am still 10 times smarter than you. "
there aren't that many times I don't think. However there is a time where I was at my friends house and we were talking about how tall a guy was. What I said was 5 no wait maybe 6 ft. he said something like 6.5. the answer was 6 and I said yay that's what I thought. but he said no u didn't Trevor and we went thro that yes I did no u didn't thing so I said Up shut Brice You don't know what your talking about. so yay that's the only thing I can think of right now but hopefully that the only time :)
Well, only sometimes I react with rude comments when my brother and I get into fights. That s probably like the only time that ever happens!
I have snaped and made a nasty comment to my brother when he agriavates me by annoying me.Then i feel guilty about it after so i think he willl fell guilty.
The situation that Tad had with Brianna Slack has happened to me. When I was little someone told me that I lived in a small house and that hurt my feelings. The only thing different between Tad's situation and mine is that I did not act back right away. Instead I just said to my parents I did not want to take the bus anymore. That is a situation that I had that is kind of like Tad's.
Mr. Christopher A. Bunel6th Grade TeacherThompson Brook SchoolAvon, CT 06001