I was 10 and was camping and i met a new friend and we were playing a game and he got me really made because he ws cheating. I said stop cheating but he would not. so i said you must not have friends if you cheat all the time and he left and never saw him again. i wish that i could take that back. i was just made so i said something.
If I said something that I regret I usually take it back. The worst thing you can do is not apologize. It will totally make the situation worse. I have done this thousands of times and about a hundred I don't apologize. That is the worst thing you can do unless you find hatred in that person.
One time someone was being annoying and was acting childish so I said stop idiot. They stopped but they had that face that meant they were sad in a way. I never forgot that moment because when I said it everybody stopped talking and was silent. It was an awkward moment that made me regret saying what I said.
One time I told someone what they could do to make a painting they made a little better. I really just meant to help, but I think they took it as an insult. I wish I could have taken it back, but I felt really awkard.
One time that something I said was mean without that being my intention was when I told someone that they looked fat in a dress. I was counger then and they asked how they looked, I was being honest but not nice. I apologized later and we smoothed it over and it turned out alright.
I can relate to this. Once i called my sister a name and she put a tantrum and my parents blamed me for everthing even the tantrum and the night later and for the rest of the week i spent my time trying to get her to like me again and for her to respect once agian.This is one time where i regreted about saying something.
When I was in fourth grade, our teacher was telling us how if we behaved very well, we would have a class party. He told us that we could decide the theme so we were all discussing ideas. One kid, who was new at the beginning of the school year raised his hand with a question. The kid had moved here from New Orleans so his suggestion was a Mardi Gras-themed party. After he said that I said out loud, "You're not in Louisiana anymore." I don't think he was really personally offended by it, but it was enough to get sent into the hallway for!
A time when I said something that hurt someone and it wasn't my intention was when my friends and I were joking about stuff and he said something and then I called him a name and at the time it didn't seem to bother him at all but later on I found out that it really hurt his feelings and it made him feel bad. That is a time when I said something to someone and it hurt them and it wasn't my intention to do that.
Well i actually said something about the tonells like Mr.Bunel did. That person looked sad after so i apoligized but I thought it would be funny and it was to some people but not to that person.
I cant really think of a time in detail that I said somthing hurtful that I didn`t think would hurt somebody but it did. I pretty sure I must have done it but my brain is at a loss. I might have said something just plain stupid, and it hurt somebody, but I really cant think of ANYTHING. AAAHHHHH BRAIN WORK!!!!!!! sorry for this pretty pointless blog.
One time I made a comment that I made as a friendly joke but offended someone was when I was at lunch one day and I said to someone "All alone?" when someone was sitting by themself. The person felt so bad I offered for him to come to my table and he did and I apologized.
I am sure that I have been in many conversations in which I have said certain things that have hurt people. I am having a hard time remembering examples. The one that is easiest to remember is the one with my mom. There are times when I have gotten so mad at my mom that I said I hated her. She knows that I do not mean that, but it still hurts her feelings. In my defense, my mom starts it.
The only time i have ever said something is a name to someone, if were fighting or joking buut i dont think i have ever said something that hurtful to someone it just goes in one ear and out the other usually.
I said something like cool teeth metal to another person as a joke because I thought they would laugh at my humor not the case at all they got upset and things just went downhill from there.
Once a girl at dance that I disliked a lot was talking back to everyone no matter what they said. My friend said something to her and I didn't like the way she was talking to my friend so I snapped back at her, " HEY WATCH IT WITCH!". She was one of those people who's really sensitive to everything that's said. She obviously didn't take it well. I didn't think before I spoke so the words kind of slipped. I didn't mean what she thought I meant by witch, I was just trying to get my point across that she can't talk to my friend that way. I didn't mean it the way she thought I did.
Well...my sibblings and I are always arguing but I don't really fight back (my brother is 6ft 2in so it doesn't end well when I fight back.) I've never said anything that mean to them but, one day my brother was picking on me and I said your such an idiot. I felt so bad this was when I was like 9 he was 14 then. A second later I started crying and said I'm soooo sorry and hugged him he responded sweetly with what's wrong with this kid!
Well, my sister isnt the skinniest person, and she eats ALOT of sugar. So one time i went up to her and said, wow this family eats alot of sugar, we should really stop buying it!!! And the took it as me calling her fat, and she was devastated. Her rold model for 8 years had just 'called her fat.' And she didnt forgive me for days.
Well, this always happens to me because I say the first things that comes to mind. But, the thing about this blog thing is I have called people mean things but, it was either us joking or the person can take things like that.
A time I said something that hurt someone was when my dog chewed up my favorite toy, I strted screaming at her, and she looked really sad and guilty. I felt so bad after.
One time I said something that hurt someone but I didn't mean it was when I was 6. My brother and I were at a party and my brother was on the trampoline and fell. Then another kid fell on his ankle and sprained it. He had a limp and I told him he looked like an old man hobbling along. Because he was only eight he started crying and I immediatelly felt sorry. That is a time I said something that I didn't mean to hurt someone but it did.
Yes, i have hurt someone with words. I have called people mean words and i still regret and I can't take them back. I wish I had a way to go back in time and change what I said.
Mr. Christopher A. Bunel6th Grade TeacherThompson Brook SchoolAvon, CT 06001